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Few men have safe, trustworthy spaces for real conversations about the things that matter most to us. Instead, men have suffered in silence, but that changes now. Join renowned author and men’s coach, Bryan Reeves, and his lifelong best friend, Tait Arend, a leadership coach, as they delve deep into the urgent topics men are dying to discuss – intimacy, purpose, manhood, love, and much more. Men (and the women who love them) … this way.
Jan. 2, 2025

140. The 4 Masculine Archetypes (And Beyond) w/ Legendary Author Douglas Gillette

140. The 4 Masculine Archetypes (And Beyond) w/ Legendary Author Douglas Gillette
140. The 4 Masculine Archetypes (And Beyond) w/ Legendary Author Douglas Gillette
Men This Way with Bryan Reeves
140. The 4 Masculine Archetypes (And Beyond) w/ Legendary Author Douglas Gillette

“This reveals that both reality and our personal identities extend beyond the obvious, and the various levels of our consciousness hold significant practical value”.- Douglas Gillette

Today on Men, This Way:

  • 00:00 Welcoming Douglas M. Gillette
  • 01:01 Discussion on "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover"
  • 01:29 Background of Douglas Gillette
  • 02:00 Douglas' Pastoral Background and Interfaith Work
  • 03:01 Family Dinners and Personal Introductions
  • 04:01 Discussion on Douglas' New Book and Life Experiences
  • 06:00 Upcoming Book Discussions on Zoom
  • 07:04 The Role of a Guru in Learning
  • 07:42 Importance of Masculine Archetypes
  • 14:06 Deep Dive into Archetypal Work in Men's Groups
  • 16:05 Experiences from a Men's Workshop
  • 17:10 Exploring the Shadows of Masculine Archetypes
  • 20:20 Discussion on Shadow Work and Personal Wholeness
  • 21:06 Explanation of Collective Shadow
  • 23:48 Carl Jung's Contributions to Psychology
  • 30:02 Integration of Imagination in Personal Development
  • 33:06 Discussion on Modern Relevance of Douglas' Book
  • 37:40 The Lack of Elders and the Need for Maps
  • 41:17 Integrating the Whole Man
  • 48:08 Embracing the Paradox of the Spiritual Path
  • 56:57 Reflections on Personal Life and Legacy
  • 67:18 Final Message from Douglas Gillette


Takeaways of this episode:

  • The significance of the archetypes and their profound resonance with the male psyche.
  • Men's work that focuses on exploring and integrating the shadow aspects of the archetypes.
  • The importance of shadow work—engaging with the parts of oneself that are typically hidden or suppressed.
  • Science and spirituality both can contribute to a deeper understanding of the self and the universe.
  • The future of men's studies, and the importance of continuing personal and collective growth.


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